2026-05-05 22:13 UTC
@jepyang@wandering.shop Thanks! It’s hard to get out of the scarcity/competitive mindset even though I know it’s heteronormative and has never worked for me in the first place. Especially with my ex wife in my ear with all the comparisons 😮💨
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@jepyang@wandering.shop 2026-05-06 01:17
@mayorbeetles@pagan.plus 💜💜 it IS hard!! and feelings happen even when you logically know that it’s all fine. it took me a few years to really get over the mononormative stuff, and even still it crops up when i’m feeling bad or whatever.