What do you mean people in the LGBTQ community don’t talk to you IRL. Do you mean that as a kind of fearing a minority thing or because they extra careful about the general rule of not outing people you clock? I’m a white trans woman, but I live in a very diverse area. So the idea of avoiding someone because of their ethnicity is kinda foreign to me. Where I am, PoC are generally more respectful if not friendly to queer people than most white people are.